A Grandma’s Love

March 3, 2010 at 8:31 pm by Amanda

This is what my Mother said to me today on the phone:

“Ariella has such a sincerely happy personality. She is always so upbeat, even when she hurts herself. If anyone ever changes that about her, and I find out who it is,  I will stand up on a chair and kick them in the face.”

You have to know my Mother to understand that this statement is a very strong testament of her love for her Granddaughter. My Mother never swears, is very soft spoken, and sometimes you have to look twice to even know she’s ’s in the room. Her quote next to her senior picture in her yearbook (waaaaay back when) said ‘Quiet waters run deep’. That quote was picked by the yearbook staff, not her.

In other words, I hope no one ever messes with our daughter. I think Gramma would act on this statement no matter how old she is!

Snow Queen

February 15, 2010 at 7:47 pm by Derek

The weather was just right for babies today, so outside we went…

Gotta Wear Shades

Gone Sledding

Like Ice Cream, But With Less Flavor

Snow Is Good For You!

As Long As It Isn't Yellow

All the Interesting Things Happen When Derek is not Home

February 11, 2010 at 10:40 pm by Amanda

This is an honest to God testimony of what has just been my evening.

It all started with a baby-style late-after dinner poop. I smelled it when she was playing next to me before bath time. (Cursed Mama nose!) No big deal, these things happen. Since it was almost bath time anyway, I took her upstairs to clean her up and get her in the tub. Instead of putting a new cloth diaper on her, I decided to just let her run around in the bathroom naked while I got the tub ready.

I ran out of the room for honestly 15 seconds to grab the phone out of our bedroom just in case someone called. When I got back into the room I noticed that there was something large, brown, and slimy looking on the floor that hadn’t been there before. I thought, “Oh Shit!” and then promptly realized that it was in fact poop on the floor. Not the “easy to pick up with a wad of toilet paper” either. :)

She of course has stepped in the poop by this point and is reveling in the fact that her foot now slides around on the linoleum. Lovely. I pick her up, put her in the bathtub to get her cleaned up, and take care of the floor.

Bath time actually is a lot of fun, despite the mess. After she is all clean and pruny, I dry her off and get her pj’s on and into the crib so I can go downstairs and get her milk ready. Downstairs, I realize that there are no more clean nipples for her bottles. So I get the water hot, get them all soapy and the water runs out. (We have well water out here in Holland-land)

When the water runs out here, you have to wait an indeterminate amount of time for the pump to fill back up. So now I have a toilet with poop in it, because if you flush the toilet while running water into the bathtub it can get very hot, no water to rinse my soapy nipples (go ahead and giggle here), a full load of cloth diapers in the washer that now is half full of rinsing water, a baby who only drank half her milk at bedtime because she doesn’t like milk from a sippy cup spout, and my bladder decides then to make it known that I REALLY have to pee (which I did only to forget about the water and FLUSH).

End of story – the water is back, cloth diapers are clean, baby is sleeping, nipples are no longer soapy, and Derek is home.

Is government the Statler solution?

January 24, 2010 at 4:07 pm by Derek

It’s been awhile since I’ve written anything of substance here. I blame that on the fact that I’ve been doing more of substance since being elected Treasurer of the Central Terminal Restoration Corporation. As I’ve spent the last few months gaining a deeper understanding of the many facets of the project, I’ve also been keeping an eye on the Statler saga. It’s a sad story for a storied building, but it’s fate will be one to watch as other Preservation projects, like ours, are probably more tied to it’s future than we’d like to admit.

One of the most frequently cited negatives of the Central Terminal project is that we’re located too far away from the downtown core. Yet with the Statler we have a historic building of the same age as the Terminal in the most prime location in the center of downtown. Yet, we have some people arguing it has a negative market value? That seems extraordinarily unlikely seeing that there were at least two bidders for it in the last auction, and the prior owner paid a couple million for it. There are hundreds of buildings in the city that you actually couldn’t give away which would fit the “worthless” moniker much better.

Of course, you have the people parroting for it’s demolition, but demolition is expensive for a structure like this. First, the building undoubtedly has asbestos that would need to be removed first. Asbestos removal is one of the costly items to deal with when rehabbing an old building. Second is the question of what do you replace a demolished building with? Buffalo isn’t in need of any more parking lots or shovel-ready sites. So if you don’t have a project waiting in the wings for this lot, and if you’re going to be stuck with an expensive taxpayer-funded demolition, what do you do? Exactly what is being done with the Statler – you seal it up and wait until the right developer comes along.

I think we can go one step better, actually. More needs to be done to preserve these key buildings that give Buffalo it’s unique feel and tie in it’s historical roots. Most business tax breaks are frequently criticized as being overly generous to a small number of companies, and many people are unsettled with the concept of handing over taxpayer dollars to businesses. The other “solution” has been instead to throw millions of dollars into brand-new development somewhere where there’s a clean slate, but that only distracts attention away from the problems at the city’s core.

Most people agree that infrastructure maintenance is a role of government. So, why not treat these buildings as infrastructure and take the money being thrown away for silver-bullet development and given away to companies that can afford to operate without the various tax breaks and subsidies and instead create a fund that will be directed towards preserving and preparing these key structures for the future? Focus on the areas that are expensive and problematic which deter the private developers – remove lead paint and asbestos, prevent water damage by sealing up roofs and windows, keep drains flowing and basements dry, and prevent scavengers from getting inside and stripping elements for scrap. Rather than letting the building sit dormant and slowly decay, make the investment to keep it usable for the future and more attractive to a developer who can focus on redeveloping it for current-day uses.

Everyone agrees that vacant, boarded up buildings have a negative impression on their area, so making sure there is a few of them as possible is an improvement to the entire community. A reinvestment plan like this makes the area more attractive to businesses, and will ultimately lower the cost of doing business by making buildings cheaper to rehab, thus lowering rent. It’s an investment in the city itself, which is what our tax dollars should be going towards.

It’s laughable to hear people say that the Statler it’s past it’s time. The Statler is nowhere near unsalvageable – it still had tenants in right up until it’s close. The Central Terminal has been largely vacant for 30 years. The Statler is a general-purpose building that can be easily adapted to a variety of purposes, unlike the Central Terminal’s purpose-built function which requires more imagination to adapt. And yes, the Statler is within spitting distance of the City Hall, not segregated a few miles away. I’ve read some comments from people saying a group like the CTRC should take over the Statler because we’ve done a commendable job with the Terminal, but volunteers are not what the Statler needs. If our group could get the Central Terminal back to the condition the Statler is in, that would be a success in itself. It’s the next phase of restoration that’s difficult and expensive and can’t be done simply by having dedicated people that love the project. Fixing the problems of the past to prepare for the future is where government can step in and do something tangible to help. Investing in your own property is something individuals and businesses alike can understand and regularly do, so we should be able to extend that philosophy to the public level.

Sick and Sleepy

January 17, 2010 at 4:13 pm by Derek

Ariella caught a cold and didn’t have much of an appetite yesterday. She was so pooped by the end of the day, that she almost didn’t make it through bathtime.

Yeah, it snowed

January 10, 2010 at 1:07 pm by Derek

The amount of snow that’s fallen is pretty crazy. It’s the light, fluffy, kind where you can see distinct snowflakes, and when you walk on it, you sink to your knees. Thought I’d take the camera out for awhile yesterday and see what I could capture.

Snowy Table

Snowy Pines

Snowy house

Snow covered trees

Snowy Field

Fangs

The general catch up/look forward/first post of the year post

January 1, 2010 at 10:36 pm by Derek

Well… 2009 is gone already, huh? I feel obligated to blog something here more than an Ariella photo to start off the year, so here’s my stream of consciousness…

My 2009 was largely focused on two things – my new daughter and the Central Terminal. While the former was entirely positive, the latter was a mixed bag. It still stings that Mike Miller is gone. I miss chatting with him about cars, getting together for the occasional dinner and bottle of wine, and of course to discuss the Terminal and the future of Buffalo. In Mike’s footsteps, I was elected to the Board and am trying hard to improve the operations of the organization. It’s something that takes as much time as you can afford to sink into it, but it feels like good work is being accomplished.

More on Ariella – she’s so incredible! I’ve had the last two weeks off, and being able to spend that much time with her and Amanda has been a ton of fun. Ariella really seems to learn something new every day and I swear she’s grown up a bunch in the last two weeks. I’m sure 2010 will be no less amazing.

The end of 2009 also marked the completion of my 10th year at Praxair. Incredulously, that means I’ve been out of college for 10 years now! More credulously, it means I get 4 weeks of vacation now. That’s awesome. While being off, a bit of restructuring was going on in our department which should make for an interesting start to the year.

2009 was the year that I finally admitted to myself that our Select Comfort Sleep Number bed sucks ass, but not without making Select Comfort own up to the fact that their shit sucks first. Social media for the win there.

2009 was also our first year as primarily a single income family. Having just closed the books today, we managed to hold pretty closely to our budget. Had it not been for some unexpected drainage work that needed to be done after we decided to replace all the upstairs windows, it would have been a net positive year. We’ll need to work harder next year to build the savings up a bit.

I was able to improve my photography skills a bit last year as well, having the opportunity to take lots of baby pictures, as well as attend a David Tejada photo workshop and get the occasional feedback from my new friends over at Nickel City Studios.

Here’s to another year of new experiences and growth.

She’s electric!

December 30, 2009 at 1:33 pm by Derek

Baby with soft, fine hair + electrostatically charging plastic/vinyl kitchen = hair raising experience!

Merry Christmas!

December 24, 2009 at 10:05 am by Derek

Merry Christmas to all our friends and family! Earlier this year, we went to Bronner’s CHRISTmas Wonderland in Frankenmuth, MI, a place I had been to several times over the years when visiting family in Michigan. I’ve had one of their signature handpainted ornaments for years, so we got one for Amanda and Ariella to add to our tree. That seemed like an appropriate photo to make for this year’s Christmas card.

Ornaments

Sorry to those that won’t get their physical Christmas card before Christmas. We are [still] waiting for some photos of Ariella we ordered to come in, and we figured if the cards were going to be late anyways, we may as well wait for the photos to come in. Please accept this digital substitute in the meantime. :)

I’m thankful for… pie!

November 27, 2009 at 12:36 am by Derek

I like pie!